π Busy for What? Rediscovering Purpose Through Clear Goals
By Coach Amirul
“And [He] created everything and determined it with precise measurement.”
— Surah Al-Qamar, 54:49
Have you ever felt like your days are full, but your heart feels empty?
That you’re always moving, but not really getting anywhere?
That’s how I’ve felt many times. And I know many others feel the same.
We rush through the day — meetings, chores, social media, conversations — and at the end of it all, we lie in bed wondering, “What did I actually achieve today?”
Recently, I came across a beautiful infographic titled “How GOALS are made” by edgetrainings.net, and it struck me. Hard.
It reminded me of something I often tell others in training, but sometimes forget to live by myself:
"If you don’t set the direction, don’t be surprised when life feels like you’re just floating.”
π― The Problem Isn’t Being Busy — It’s Being Directionless
We’ve been told all our lives to “work hard.” But working hard without clarity can feel like running on a treadmill — full effort, no progress.
This infographic breaks it down beautifully, showing that true achievement begins with clarity, not just action.
π How Goals Are Really Made — 6 Simple Steps
Here’s what I took away:
1. Know Yourself & Decide What You Want
Many of us don’t take time to reflect on our true desires. Not what others want from us, but what we truly want. This is where goals begin — with self-honesty.
2. Do What You Love & Link Passion to Purpose
When your goal is tied to something you love, it becomes easier to commit. Your motivation is internal. You’re not just doing it for praise or profit — you're doing it because it matters to your soul.
3. Visualize the Affirmations
This isn’t just motivational fluff — it’s neuroscience. When you imagine a future where your goal is real, your brain begins to believe it’s possible. This belief shifts your actions.
4. Begin with the End in Mind
Stephen Covey said it. So did Prophet Yusuf (a.s.) when he saw his dream and lived toward it. Great goals start by imagining the final scene — the legacy, the transformation.
5. Set Discipline Limits
Here’s where most of us stumble. Dreams without discipline are daydreams. Set boundaries. Say no when needed. Wake up when it’s hard. This is the price of real progress.
6. Write the Goal Statement
Write it. Make it clear. Keep it short. Stick it somewhere you can see every day. Don’t let your goal live only in your mind — give it life through words.
π Islamic Perspective on Goals
Islam is a goal-driven faith. We pray 5 times a day — why? To stay connected. We fast in Ramadan — why? To build taqwa. We give zakat — why? To purify our wealth and hearts.
Everything has a niyyah (intention), and every intention should align with a goal that pleases Allah.
The Qur’an reminds us:
“And He created everything and determined it with precise measurement.”
(Al-Qamar, 54:49)
Nothing in this universe was created randomly. Should our actions be any different?
The Prophet Muhammad ο·Ί also said:
“The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, though there is good in both.”
— (Sahih Muslim)
Strength comes from direction. From knowing what matters. From choosing your priorities.
π‘ Why This Matters to Me
As a trainer, I meet many students, professionals, and even parents who tell me:
“I feel stuck.”
“I don’t know where I’m heading.”
“I’m working so hard, but I’m still not satisfied.”
I always tell them, let’s go back to the root. What is your goal?
Not just big goals like career or business.
But daily goals like:
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“Today I want to listen with full attention.”
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“I want to sleep by 11PM.”
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“I want to read 1 page of the Qur’an.”
Small goals, achieved consistently, lead to big transformations.
π My Challenge to You (and to Myself)
Take 5 minutes right now. Yes, now.
π Write down 1 small goal you want to commit to today.
Nothing fancy. Just meaningful.
Here are some examples:
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Wake up without hitting snooze
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Speak kindly to someone who annoys you
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Clean your desk before Maghrib
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Recite Surah Al-Waqi’ah after Asar
Do it. Write it. Feel the difference.
π· Credit to Visual
The infographic that inspired this reflection was created by Obaid Bilgarami and published via edgetrainings.net.
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❤️ Final Words
I wrote this article to remind myself, first and foremost. Life moves fast. But if we don’t pause to set our direction, we might spend years climbing the wrong ladder.
Start today. Choose one goal. Commit to it. And feel how powerful life becomes when you live it on purpose.
Barakallahu feekum.
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